Hello again!
As promised, this blog will feature the guide to babysitting that we have all been waiting for!
So this Saturday just gone, my brother and sister-in-law asked me if I would babysit for my gorgeous nephew and niece! I have never really babysat properly for them before as normally my mum has the honour of entertaining them all day and I just stay with them whilst they sleep. Also my brother and sis-in-law are so devoted to the family that they rarely spend much time away from the kiddlywinks. (If they're reading this, i'll definitely get some brownie points for that!!) Now this was no problem at all other than I had no idea what to do with them as Craig would have the car till he finished work.
When they asked me if I would we didn't expect the weather to be so nice. So some of the points you may have to adapt to suit your own climate. Here is a short guide for you lot, in case you ever get called upon for babysitting duty and don't have a clue where to begin...
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- Take spare clothing. You tend to do unexpected things with kids. Water fights? Messy foods? All situations like these can mean a change of clothing would be useful. Also, even just taking your trusty pj's so that when they settle down at night, you can comfy too!!
- If you have long hair...tie it back. One thing you can guarantee is that being a babysitter means you are the entertainment for the night. All these mums who look amazing every single day, are with these children every single day. You on the other hand, are a novelty. They want to see how many times you can do a roly-poly down a hill. They want to see you do a cartwheel so they can show your yours and tell you how to do it correctly. They want you to run around playing monsters in the garden. Trust me, tie long hair back. If you think that you would not give in to their requests you are horrible mistaken. They will know how to push your buttons. Be aware!!
- Have a camera at hand. Kids do funny things. All. The. Time.
- Plan a baking/cookery activity. These activities have everything kiddies love. Food, mess, playing and fun! Just don't expect them to make the worlds best panacotta and you will not be disappointed! I planned on doing this over the weekend but due to the weather being so bloody beautiful, we made ice lollies instead! Again, fun, cheap and delicious to eat in the sun!
- Always have a colouring book. What little girl doesn't love to colour?
- Scooters are a good choice.
- Despite what the parents say, chocolate is a wonderful bribe! Use it to your advantage!
- If you tire them about by taking them to the park, playing in the garden etc, they won't resist bedtime. Also, if they exercise before bed, they will hopefully sleep right through and not disturb you in the night! This also means that when mum and dad get in from a wild night out, they have undisturbed sleep through the morning and are able to sleep off that tequila hangover!
- Have some cash handy. You ARE going to need to go to the shop for either food, dilute pop or toilet roll. It is inevitable. You also may want to order food because you have been such a good babysitter!
- Remember what it was like to be a kid. Everyone has that one babysitter they remember because they were mean, or made you go to bed too early, or wouldn't let you have anything other than water to drink or put you on the naughty step all the time! So, remember that. You don't want to be that babysitter. You want to be the cool one who goes to the parks and does cool things. Again refer to No.7
So there is my guide for you all to follow if you wish. One of the most important thing to remember in this is that you are giving up your time to babysit so don't make it boring. Make sure you have fun, cherish the moments with the kiddies and put your feet up with a good movie when they are all asleep!